Not really making an effort to understand me
Barely looking at things from my perspective
Forcing me to change me to be like you
Not meeting me half way
Not being and considerate of my emotional triggers
Not being direct about your wants and needs
Not being truthful
Not taking accountability
Hardly ever apologising
Using disrespectful language towards me
Criticising me
Disrespecting me
Not making an effort to understand my love language
Using my history, trauma and triggers against me
Attempting difficult conversations but in reality disengaging
I thank you